I've often thought long and hard about this topic, and i get unbelievably frustrated when girls even brings themselves onto the subject. Pregnancy/menstruation/'women's problems'. God i hate it when someone of the opposite sex will make a statement such as 'oh you don't what it's like to be a girl' or that a man 'could never hack childbirth'... Please stop unless you want unlimited notifications from me about how ignorant you really are and how oblivious to human nature.
First of all, if you aren't pregnant or haven't had a child you have no more right than me to talk about how painful it is and if you could withstand the pains or not. Sure, I'm not female and i will never give birth to a child but it makes it perfectly alright to start pitying yourself and trying to make me feel bad as if it were my fault. When i was choosing my gender, i remember perfectly trying to tick the female box but my nonexistent 'male ego' got in the way and ticked the remaining box... Secondly who made it your gift to say that a man wouldn't be able to withstand childbirth? Did you prove this? Did you watch the film 'Junior' and decide that it was possible and base it on that? OH you thought you would take the convenient point of impossibility and twist it in a way were you can sit amongst yourselves and complain how we have it easy. In that case I'm so SO sorry, i didn't mean to rain on your parade and come and boast off my inability to give birth. You can't simply say something and believe it true just because it's impossible for it to happen. I can't give birth only physically.
If it were possible for a man to give birth then i am certain that a man could go through the pain and suffering otherwise there wouldn't be a point in it being possible. By saying 'you wouldn't be able to go through this' is just ignorance. You can't possible expect me to prove that i can because I'm unable to, but proving something on the basis of me not being able to prove otherwise is just excitingly dull of you. Think outside the box a bit, you know?
Another quote that i have which annoys me terribly is 'When you're giving birth, they just sit there and say it's going to be okay, because YOU done this to me! it's your fault, why are you here? you're no help' This is the biggest piece of utter shit i have ever heard. I know that not ALL women say this or even think it, but I've come across a few that do. Did you really expect a man to sit there and listen to that and say 'Oh okay, I'll go home' I'm afraid it's as much his baby as it is hers, I once again apologize that you have to deliver the baby but I'm sure in a mans heart of hearts, if it were possible he would carry the burden... in most cases. And of course he done this to you, you think sexual intercourse is only on a man's part yeah? Only the man has sex, and he sneakily implanted them into your womb? James bond yeah? Undercover stealth mode yeah? No. You had sex with him and have as much responsibility as him for having unprotected sex. Have sex. Be pregnant. don't pass any blame. Have the child. Fucking toddler, happy?
This blog is going to be extremely long. Stop reading if you're eyes hurt.
Back to my blog post title. Hypocrisy. I have the most frustrating example i can think of, and being a huge role model to little girls and even adults in this day and age you would expect a bit more of self respect for herself. Beyoncé, or however you accent her name. The majority of women believe in equal opportunity right? Most believe that women shouldn't be 'womanized' as it were? Treated as an item of belonging rather than a human being. I hate it when a singer like this comes along and so commonly shows her ignorance of a whole female generation. The lyrics 'if you like it then you should have put a ring on it' border on making me want to kill myself. Using the word 'it' destroyed and chance of respect that i had for you. By cat-calling a man as if it is his responsibility to do everything - which is insisted that he doesn't - and then taunting the guy because he missed out the opportunity to be with you? But THEN referring to yourself as 'it' took it to the next level. The whole song is a shambles to start with to be honest, so if this woman has any decency and has already proved herself to be a feminist by her 'if i were a boy' song stereotyping every man into 'drinking a beer with the guys' and so forth then she is in all senses of the word, a hypocrite. There is no room for fools like her in this media, celebrity-obsessed planet. Unless we want a generation of male-hating, feminist lesbians.
Oh god it would be so much easier if i were a boy,
Fuck you.
First of all, if you aren't pregnant or haven't had a child you have no more right than me to talk about how painful it is and if you could withstand the pains or not. Sure, I'm not female and i will never give birth to a child but it makes it perfectly alright to start pitying yourself and trying to make me feel bad as if it were my fault. When i was choosing my gender, i remember perfectly trying to tick the female box but my nonexistent 'male ego' got in the way and ticked the remaining box... Secondly who made it your gift to say that a man wouldn't be able to withstand childbirth? Did you prove this? Did you watch the film 'Junior' and decide that it was possible and base it on that? OH you thought you would take the convenient point of impossibility and twist it in a way were you can sit amongst yourselves and complain how we have it easy. In that case I'm so SO sorry, i didn't mean to rain on your parade and come and boast off my inability to give birth. You can't simply say something and believe it true just because it's impossible for it to happen. I can't give birth only physically.
If it were possible for a man to give birth then i am certain that a man could go through the pain and suffering otherwise there wouldn't be a point in it being possible. By saying 'you wouldn't be able to go through this' is just ignorance. You can't possible expect me to prove that i can because I'm unable to, but proving something on the basis of me not being able to prove otherwise is just excitingly dull of you. Think outside the box a bit, you know?
Another quote that i have which annoys me terribly is 'When you're giving birth, they just sit there and say it's going to be okay, because YOU done this to me! it's your fault, why are you here? you're no help' This is the biggest piece of utter shit i have ever heard. I know that not ALL women say this or even think it, but I've come across a few that do. Did you really expect a man to sit there and listen to that and say 'Oh okay, I'll go home' I'm afraid it's as much his baby as it is hers, I once again apologize that you have to deliver the baby but I'm sure in a mans heart of hearts, if it were possible he would carry the burden... in most cases. And of course he done this to you, you think sexual intercourse is only on a man's part yeah? Only the man has sex, and he sneakily implanted them into your womb? James bond yeah? Undercover stealth mode yeah? No. You had sex with him and have as much responsibility as him for having unprotected sex. Have sex. Be pregnant. don't pass any blame. Have the child. Fucking toddler, happy?
This blog is going to be extremely long. Stop reading if you're eyes hurt.
Back to my blog post title. Hypocrisy. I have the most frustrating example i can think of, and being a huge role model to little girls and even adults in this day and age you would expect a bit more of self respect for herself. Beyoncé, or however you accent her name. The majority of women believe in equal opportunity right? Most believe that women shouldn't be 'womanized' as it were? Treated as an item of belonging rather than a human being. I hate it when a singer like this comes along and so commonly shows her ignorance of a whole female generation. The lyrics 'if you like it then you should have put a ring on it' border on making me want to kill myself. Using the word 'it' destroyed and chance of respect that i had for you. By cat-calling a man as if it is his responsibility to do everything - which is insisted that he doesn't - and then taunting the guy because he missed out the opportunity to be with you? But THEN referring to yourself as 'it' took it to the next level. The whole song is a shambles to start with to be honest, so if this woman has any decency and has already proved herself to be a feminist by her 'if i were a boy' song stereotyping every man into 'drinking a beer with the guys' and so forth then she is in all senses of the word, a hypocrite. There is no room for fools like her in this media, celebrity-obsessed planet. Unless we want a generation of male-hating, feminist lesbians.
Oh god it would be so much easier if i were a boy,
Fuck you.
Amazing... Some true words.
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